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Grades Don’t Define Me – A Story of Self-Worth & Academic Pressure

Grades weren’t just numbers; they were a part of who I was, even when I wished they weren’t. For someone like me, who had no standout talents outside academics as a teenager and young adult, excelling in my studies felt essential. My father’s pride was built on academic success, and I know many other students feel the same pressure to achieve.

As a gifted child, hearing praise from my father felt like the ultimate reward—something every academic achiever dreams of. I would do anything to hear him acknowledge my hard work and dedication.

The term “gifted child” was first used in 1869 by Francis Galton. Galton used the term to describe children who could inherit the potential to become gifted adults and […]

I Was No Longer the Same Person – A Journey of Growth & Healing

Following my cancer diagnosis, surgery, and treatment, I was no longer the person who had once been a business owner, mother, and wife. I had transformed, gradually releasing pieces of my former life without fully understanding what awaited me on the other side.

It took nearly two months to find an apartment for Wendy and me, and it took fifteen years to leave Pacific Grove finally. I hadn’t realized how deeply rooted I’d become in that place.

I’d known for years that I needed to move, but Dennis and his attorneys restricted me, preventing me from moving more than 20 miles away or leaving the school district where Wendy was enrolled.

My time in Pacific Grove felt relentless. I constantly shifted from one […]

Challenges Only Deeply Spiritual Souls Truly Understand

As a deeply spiritual individual, I possess a heightened intuition and am deeply attuned to my surroundings and those around me. I often have a profound sense of justice and a solid inner moral guide. I have always questioned the norm, resisted conformity, and advocated for fresh perspectives.

Living a deeply spiritual life isn’t as glamorous as it might seem. As a spiritually attuned person, I often face unique challenges beyond the ordinary. I navigate unseen complexities, contend with silent judgments, and experience struggles few truly understand.

At my core, I am driven by curiosity.

I crave knowledge and truth, often pursuing interests with intense focus and self-direction. Through asking endless questions, diving into books and research, or making quiet yet keen […]

The Transformative Power of Writing: How It Changed My Life

The Depths of Writing: A Journey into Myself

Writing is far more than another means of communication for me; it’s been a profound exploration of my soul.

Each time I write, every word I craft takes me on a journey that often reveals its meaning only after the fact. When I reflect on what writing does for my life, I see its powerful influence on how I process growth and grapple with life’s subtleties.

A Canvas for Creativity

Writing is an outlet for creativity. The flow of words sparks ideas and opens up a space where imagination can thrive. I find joy and inspiration in expressing myself freely through this creative process.

An Emotional Release

Writing about complex or painful experiences offers me emotional catharsis.

It’s a […]

Understanding Attachment: How Feelings and Emotions Shape Relationships

One day, a friend called me in tears because his girlfriend had left him for someone else. I couldn’t quite grasp why he was so heartbroken.

I asked him, ‘Don’t you want to be with someone who loves you just as much as you love them? Someone who would never hurt you like this? She doesn’t meet that standard, so why are you so upset?’

It didn’t add up to me — at least not to me at this time in my life.

In that moment, I realized my perspective on emotions had shifted, setting me apart from others. For me, emotions have become obstacles on what could otherwise be a smooth road to happiness, while my friends seem to embrace and even […]

What Was Normal in the 60s? A Nostalgic Look Back

It’s profoundly disheartening and frankly absurd that we still fight the same battles we did in the 1960s. That era was marked by profound movements that reshaped society: the Civil Rights movement, the Stonewall riots, the Women’s Liberation movement, anti-war demonstrations, environmental advocacy, the Red Power and Chicano movements, not to mention the cultural awakening of the Summer of Love.

Yet, we still grapple with fundamental questions: Do Black lives truly matter? Do gay and trans individuals deserve equal protection under the law? Do women have the right to control their bodies? And do shareholder profits and military dominance outweigh the preservation of life on this planet?

Incredibly, we made it through childhood in the 1960s!

Back then, kids were often exposed to […]

Growing Up in the Sixties: A Nostalgic Reflection

I was born in San Francisco, a city teeming with self-proclaimed messiahs. I’ve encountered everyone from American gurus and spiritual teachers to private jet owners, Playboy playmates, self-help swamis, and even cult leaders. The city has seen its share—there are too many to count. Among them, I met deeply compassionate, unforgettable souls and witnessed more than my fair share of corruption alongside kindness.

I was born in 1953, right into the heart of the Sixties counterculture—a time of communes, cults, meditation centers, music, and alternative spiritual movements. Those years taught me countless lessons. Feminism, rock ‘n’ roll, the drug scene, the gay rights movement, and the sexual revolution all challenged traditional religious norms and left a lasting impact on many lives. […]

From Hardship to Resilience: Overcoming Life’s Challenges with Strength

My life underwent a profound transformation after my cancer diagnosis and surgery. It changed how I lived, viewed people and the world around me, and what I truly valued. I let go of my regrets and released the anger I had held toward those who had hurt me.

I lived authentically for the first time, fully embracing who I was.

The following years were a journey of internal and external highs and lows; however, I finally moved forward.

Looking back, I realize that the pivotal changes stemmed from my cultivated habits and the unwavering support of those who genuinely cared. Sometimes, all it took was a gentle nudge or a moment of clarity to realign with my path and rediscover my purpose. Reflecting […]

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