1989: Death Part Two – Reflections on Loss and Healing
I met with Dr. Swanson in his office on Monday, where he scheduled my surgery for Thursday. Dennis wasn’t with me during this visit—he was […]
Embracing Life’s Journey: Finding Meaning in Every Moment
On January 4, 1989, my two-year-old daughter noticed something unusual on the back of my neck. We had just finished taking down the Christmas decorations, […]
Life Isn’t Just About Improvement: Embracing Growth, Balance, and Presence
For a long time, I unknowingly thought the aim was to correct every part of myself I considered flawed.
That’s the foundation of the entire self-improvement […]
The Power of Venting: Why Expressing Your Feelings Matters
While general election years are typically stressful as we anticipate our next president, the last few have been particularly emotionally charged due to heightened hostility […]
The Power of Noticing: How Small Things in Life Make a Big Difference
Grappling with life’s purpose and discovering meaning in the smallest moments. My seventies have been a peculiar period. Life has felt routine in many respects—so […]
The True Meaning of Friendship: Exploring Deep Connections & Bonds
A friend sees beyond your flaws and celebrates the beauty in your life.
True friendship exists in the quiet moments, where words aren’t needed to feel […]
Relationships Beyond Commitment: Understanding True Connection and Growth
I’ve experienced a profound love that sets the standard and makes me feel truly blessed. Deep relationships are soulful connections that involve understanding a person […]
Healing Childhood Wounds: Transforming Pain into Wisdom and Strength
Content Warning: Discussion of Bullying, Emotional, Physical, and Sexual Child Abuse
My Mindful Response to Overcoming Childhood Abuse
If you’re an adult man or woman living in […]







