29 08, 2024
Less Clutter More Life

Simplicity Is the Key: How Less Can Lead to More

By |2025-02-25T15:12:06-07:00August 29th, 2024|Dore Frances, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Since the start of this year, I’ve embarked on a journey of simplification.

While I’ve never been one for materialism, I realized I still had more than I needed.

Now, my kitchen is equipped only with the essentials I use regularly, and I’ve donated 70 books to the local library.

I have three pairs of walking shoes, each suited for different terrains and weather, and just enough pens for my writing needs. I’ve also shared my extra supplies with a local preschool.

I’m genuinely enjoying the simplicity of life, and I find nothing is missing.

Letting go of things I no longer need has been one of my best decisions. I don’t feel like I’ve “sacrificed” a life of “luxury.” Instead, I’ve traded material possessions […]

28 08, 2024
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Who Wouldn’t Be Skeptical? Questioning What We Believe

By |2025-02-25T15:04:15-07:00August 28th, 2024|Aldo Cascinai (Dad), Dore Frances, Frances Cascinai (Mom), Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

When I was three, my mother introduced me to the concept that I had a unique gift as an intuitive empath, capable of sensing and perceiving souls.

This realization marked the start of my journey as an intuitive, a path that has been met with skepticism by many.

Only a select few have stayed close to me for a long time throughout my life. I deeply cherish conversations that bring profound joy, a few laughs, and sometimes even a tear or two. As I grow older, fewer people are interested in spending time with me.

My adoptive parents named me Doretta Ellen Cascinai, but since I was 13, I’ve gone by Dore—a nickname given to me by my Aunt Connie. However, the rest […]

27 08, 2024
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Life Is a Piece of Chocolate Buttercream Cake: Savor Every Moment

By |2025-02-25T14:55:40-07:00August 27th, 2024|Dore Frances, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Countless times, people have heard parts of my story and asked if I would change anything about my life.

My response is always the same: ‘Not a chance! I’m more content and happier than I ever imagined I could be.'”

Someone once asked me, “Wouldn’t you want that house with the white picket fence, more money, or that animal sanctuary you’ve always dreamed of? Surely there’s something you’d change, right?”

My response was simple: “No.”

I’m already happy, and who knows how much more money might change my life?

Here’s how I see it: if life were a chocolate buttercream cake recipe that I’m striving to perfect, I’ve finally nailed the balance—just the right amount of salt, baking soda, cocoa powder, flour, sugar, and all […]

25 08, 2024
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Time Is a Precious Resource: How to Use It Wisely

By |2025-02-25T14:46:31-07:00August 25th, 2024|Dore Frances, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

I have dedicated much of my life to caring for others, often at the expense of my own well-being. I’ve come to realize that time is a precious resource, and how we choose to spend our days has a profound impact on our energy and overall well-being. It has taken me years to embrace the passage of time rather than fearing or ignoring it.

By being mindful of how I use my time, I’ve been able to reclaim it, making more intentional choices.

As of this writing, I have lived 25,927 days, 622,248 hours, 37,334,916 minutes, and 2,240,094,960 seconds.

Each of those moments has been a gift—the joy, the pain, and everything in between.

Whether in the simple act of folding laundry at home […]

22 08, 2024
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Entitled Brat or Pampered Child? Understanding the Fine Line

By |2025-02-25T14:56:25-07:00August 22nd, 2024|Dore Frances, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Your mind behaves like a child who always expects to get its way. Pick the description that resonates with you most.

Entitled Brat or Pampered Child.

Your mind acts like it’s always indulged and getting its way!

You’ve trained your mind to think, whether negatively or positively.

Now that it’s matured, it seems to have a sense of its own and doesn’t always follow your lead!

Sometimes, you need to focus on something specific, but your mind keeps drifting to whatever it prefers. And when you try to let go of a thought, it just won’t stop running through your head. Many factors, like anxiety, stress, and other mental health conditions, can disrupt your sleep.

As a teenager and young adult, I didn’t worry much about […]

21 08, 2024
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Why Forgiveness Felt Impossible – My Journey to Letting Go

By |2025-02-25T15:00:26-07:00August 21st, 2024|1161 Covington Road, Dore Frances, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

My stepmother grew up in a home marked by abusive alcoholism, and I suspect she may have had borderline personality disorder. When George and I moved into her house, I was eleven, and he was eight. The memory that stands out most from that day is her explosive anger and emotional outbursts.

Our dad had never told her—the woman he married and had two children with—that he also had two adopted children.

After living with our elderly Italian grandparents for two years, he had no choice but to bring us to her house; there was nowhere else to go. Nowhere else he would let us go. My dad, being very non-confrontational, never intervened or insisted that Dotti change.

Unlike what you might expect, […]

20 08, 2024
HAND IN SUNLIGHT

The Power of an Open Mind: Embracing Growth and Change

By |2025-02-25T14:31:14-07:00August 20th, 2024|Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Just as we tend to accumulate birthday cards, clothes, magazines, receipts, and souvenirs, we also cling to emotions like anger, anxiety, confusion, disappointment, envy, fear, guilt, judgment, opinions, pride, sadness, and shame.

I’ve never been one to hold on to material possessions.

What was harder for me to release were my opinions and the ability to open my mind to new ideas, perspectives, and possibilities for the future. My beliefs were the only reality and truth I knew, which created a divide between me and anyone who thought differently. This tight grip on my beliefs was rooted in fear.

Interestingly, as a teenager, I wasn’t afraid of change, strangers, or the unknown—I was a big risk-taker.

Letting go of fear and embracing limitless possibilities […]

19 08, 2024
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Stop Being So Sensitive: Embracing Your Emotions and Strength

By |2025-02-25T14:29:21-07:00August 19th, 2024|Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Throughout my life, family, friends, and coworkers have told me that I’m ‘overly sensitive’ and advised me to ‘toughen up’ due to my intuitive empathy.

My mother understood this about me, but after her passing, I faced judgment rather than support for my sensitivities.

This led to chronic exhaustion and an overwhelming desire to withdraw from the world.

It took everything in me not to give up on myself. I always felt out of place.

Many nights, I would gaze up at the sky, wishing my mom could come and take me with her. I spent a lot of time alone, with no one to relate to, no one who tried to understand me, and it seemed like no one liked me.

My father often […]

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