15 03, 2025

The Life-Changing Bond Between a Human and a Dog: My Journey with Aspen

By |March 15th, 2025|Dore Frances, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Humans and dogs have shared a special bond for centuries, living in harmony. Aspen is more than just a pet—she is a devoted companion, a guardian, a trusted friend, and a loyal partner in life’s adventures. She can ease anxiety and stress, offer comfort in difficult moments, and celebrate life’s joys with unwavering enthusiasm. She is my family and brings love, and an irreplaceable presence to my life.

ASPEN

Research has shown that having a dog can lead to a longer, happier life. Dogs have always been a part of my journey.

My love for them began in childhood, as my father was a veterinarian. We had dogs from the day I was born.

9 03, 2025

The Fragility of Trust: Healing from Betrayal and Rebuilding Confidence

By |March 9th, 2025|Dore Frances, Relationships, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Trust is fragile—an invisible thread weaving together our relationships, strengthening bonds, and forming the foundation of our personal and professional lives.

Like the finest glass, once cracked, it rarely returns to its original form. Children are typically born with an innate inclination to trust, which is gradually influenced and shaped by their experiences, interactions with caregivers, and environment. The hardest lesson I learned about trust wasn’t just how quickly it can shatter and how painstakingly slow and demanding the rebuilding process can be.

It takes years to build, mere moments to break, and sometimes a lifetime to restore.

My journey with trust began with a single betrayal—by my father.

It took years […]

8 03, 2025

The Transformative Power of Walking: A Path to Mindfulness and Clarity

By |March 8th, 2025|Dore Frances, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Stroll into mindfulness—Walking helps me reflect, observe, and embrace the little details of life. With each step, time transforms from an adversary into a precious gift. Mornings in nature and fresh air are part of my routine. I take walks with Aspen to reset.

Walking has become my go-to practice for mental clarity, mindfulness, and fitness. When I walk with intention, I notice details I might otherwise miss.

It slows me down, deepens my awareness, and offers a fresh perspective on the world around me.

Walking opens my mind—I notice the details of life that rush past when I’m in a hurry.

When I slow down, especially in nature, the world reveals itself in new and unexpected ways. Walking isn’t […]

20 02, 2025

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Part 17: Life Changes in an Instant

By |February 20th, 2025|Dore Frances, Series - Eye Opening Truths, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Life can turn on a dime—one moment, things are steady, and the next, everything shifts. You could lose your college scholarship, a family member or friend could die, your company could shut down, your home could be lost to fire or flood, your relationship could end, or, just as quickly, you could get approved for a business loan, land your dream job, receive a life-saving transplant or win the lottery.

You might feel alone one day and meet the love of your life in the most unexpected place. Nothing is permanent, and change can come in an instant.

Never take what you have for granted; don’t assume your struggles define your future.

Life […]

19 02, 2025

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Part 16: You’re Free to Move Forward

By |February 19th, 2025|Dore Frances, Series - Eye Opening Truths, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Too often, we tell ourselves, “I can’t” or “I’m stuck,” however, the reality is we’re not. It’s not your circumstances holding you back—it’s your mindset.

You’re not rooted in place like a tree. You have the power to change, to choose, to move. Your life is yours to shape.

If you want a new job, a different city, or a fresh start in any area of life—you can make it happen.

If you’re unhappy, create a plan, take small steps, and lean into what truly brings you joy.

It won’t always be easy; however, it’s always possible. You can stay grounded and emotionally resilient and continue making meaningful progress no matter what life […]

18 02, 2025

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Part 15: No Explanation Needed

By |February 18th, 2025|Dore Frances, Relationships, Series - Eye Opening Truths, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Prioritize yourself by setting boundaries.

Stop agreeing to things you don’t want to do, and start saying no—without explanation or apology.

Those who have taken advantage of you in the past will adjust.

We often put others’ happiness before our own but remember: you matter.

Your well-being comes first. Saying no protects your energy and creates space for others to step up and say yes.

Let go of people-pleasing.

Honor your own needs.

Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential.

I deeply value honesty, empathy, loyalty, and support. I have a strong instinct to defend the underdog, often stepping in during times of difficulty, tension, or conflict. I take pride […]

25 01, 2025

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Part 14: Happiness Comes from Within

By |January 25th, 2025|Dore Frances, Relationships, Series - Eye Opening Truths, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

Happiness begins within. While it’s tempting to look to others, events, or material possessions to fill our lives with joy, the truth is that genuine happiness is something only you can cultivate. Placing the responsibility for your happiness on others is unfair to them and a heavy burden they were never meant to carry.

Similarly, material things may bring fleeting joy and are not a lasting source of fulfillment.

Ultimately, no one and nothing outside of you can create lasting happiness—it’s up to you to discover what lights you up and brings meaning to your life.

True joy comes from the choices you make and the perspective you nurture.

“Never put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.” ~Unknown

It was a Friday […]

16 01, 2025

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Part 13: Every Moment Serves Its Purpose

By |January 16th, 2025|Dore Frances, Series - Eye Opening Truths, Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think|0 Comments

I’m dedicating this blog post to perseverance—standing tall during hard times, holding onto faith, and believing you can overcome even amid pain and heartbreak. Sometimes, we face hardships, miss opportunities, or stumble. In those moments, we do our best with the knowledge and resources available to us.

At just nine years old, my world was turned upside down when I lost my mother in a single tragic day. That moment changed my life forever and marked the beginning of a journey of resilience that carried me through the depths of pain and helped me find my way forward.

Outcomes can go either way—that’s the risk we take in life.

Sadly, we may never fully understand the reasons behind certain events, especially the painful […]

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