What happens when you need and want to tell the truth about things you can’t quite remember? These blog posts document my many attempts to remember and to tell the truth.

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – You’re Free to Move Forward – Reflection 16

Too often, we tell ourselves, “I can’t” or “I’m stuck,” however, the reality is we’re not. It’s not your circumstances holding you back—it’s your mindset.

You’re not rooted in place like a tree. You have the power to change, to choose, to move. Your life is yours to shape.

If you want a new job, a different city, or a fresh start in any area of life—you can make it happen.

If you’re unhappy, create a plan, take small steps, and lean into what truly brings you joy.

It won’t always be easy; however, it’s always possible. You can stay grounded and emotionally resilient and continue making meaningful progress no matter what life […]

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – No Explanation Needed – Reflection 15

Prioritize yourself by setting boundaries.

Stop agreeing to things you don’t want to do, and start saying no—without explanation or apology.

Those who have taken advantage of you in the past will adjust.

We often put others’ happiness before our own but remember: you matter.

Your well-being comes first. Saying no protects your energy and creates space for others to step up and say yes.

Let go of people-pleasing.

Honor your own needs.

Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential.

I deeply value honesty, empathy, loyalty, and support. I have a strong instinct to defend the underdog, often stepping in during times of difficulty, tension, or conflict. I take pride […]

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Happiness Comes from Within – Reflection 14

Happiness begins within. While it’s tempting to look to others, events, or material possessions to fill our lives with joy, the truth is that genuine happiness is something only you can cultivate. Placing the responsibility for your happiness on others is unfair to them and a heavy burden they were never meant to carry.

Similarly, material things may bring fleeting joy and are not a lasting source of fulfillment.

Ultimately, no one and nothing outside of you can create lasting happiness—it’s up to you to discover what lights you up and brings meaning to your life.

True joy comes from the choices you make and the perspective you nurture.

“Never put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.” ~Unknown

It was a Friday […]

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Every Moment Serves Its Purpose – Reflection 13

I’m dedicating this blog post to perseverance—standing tall during hard times, holding onto faith, and believing you can overcome even amid pain and heartbreak. Sometimes, we face hardships, miss opportunities, or stumble. In those moments, we do our best with the knowledge and resources available to us.

At just nine years old, my world was turned upside down when I lost my mother in a single tragic day. That moment changed my life forever and marked the beginning of a journey of resilience that carried me through the depths of pain and helped me find my way forward.

Outcomes can go either way—that’s the risk we take in life.

Sadly, we may never fully understand the reasons behind certain events, especially the painful […]

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Nobody Succeeds at Everything – Reflection 12

Failure can be one of life’s most challenging lessons, and its most significant harm lies in how it can paralyze us, making us afraid to try again or move forward.

Remember, no one is flawless—mistakes and setbacks are essential to personal growth.

How can we expect to discover new opportunities or develop resilience without missteps?

Falling short doesn’t make you a failure; it means you took a chance that didn’t go as expected. What matters most is getting back up, adjusting, and moving. Don’t let setbacks define you or prevent you from pursuing new possibilities. Many of the world’s most successful individuals failed multiple times, yet they persevered. Your mistakes don’t define your journey—your persistence does.

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t […]

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – New Beginnings Are Always Possible – Reflection 11

Age is merely a mindset, not a limitation.

Don’t let it discourage you from pursuing new beginnings or doing something different. You’re as young as your outlook and energy.

Remember, Colonel Sanders launched KFC at 62, and I completely reinvented my life several times, once at age 42 after facing bankruptcy and again at age 70 after retiring.

Often, our beliefs create limits—telling ourselves we’re ‘too old’ or that it’s ‘too late.’

In reality, it’s never too late to rewrite your story and embrace a fresh chapter.

As the philosopher Heraclitus wisely noted, “The only constant in life is change.”

This simple truth offers us endless opportunities for fresh starts—beginning a new year, embarking on a new career path, or stepping into a new relationship.

Each sunrise […]

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – The Spotlight Isn’t Always on You – Reflection 9

Let me be clear—people care, just not as much about your life as you might imagine. We often spend so much time consumed by what others might think about us—our actions, choices, or families—when, in truth, none of it truly matters.

Your life is yours alone and no one else’s concern. What matters most is how much you value your life and what you do to make it meaningful.

Ultimately, your life is your responsibility and your masterpiece to create.

You’re not the center of the universe—no one is.

While this might sound harsh, it’s liberating. Most people don’t spend time thinking about you, and that’s okay. Your family and close friends care profoundly and will support you when it matters, yet no one […]

Eye-Opening Truths About Life – Time Is a Gift – Reflection 8

Though time is ours, for now, its accurate measure remains uncertain—perhaps a century or just a few fleeting years or even months. We often postpone, saying, “Tomorrow, I’ll get to it,” yet for some, tomorrow is a promise unfulfilled. Value the gift of life and the moments you have. Welcome the call of adventure and the beauty of saying yes to what truly matters. Let go of what weighs you down or dims your joy. Live each day fully, with gratitude and intention, as if it were your last. It has been said that the best things in life are free, and it couldn’t be more accurate. Yet, life’s most abundant and priceless gift is often the one we undervalue […]

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