Doré E. Frances
Why Wisdom Is Harder Than You Think
Series – Eye-Opening Truths About Life to Challenge Your Thinking
Life is a curious journey. We’re born; we learn, face ups and downs, grapple with stress and anxiety, savor moments of happiness and love, experience wins and losses, and eventually, leave it all behind.
Life can turn on a dime—one moment, things are steady, and the next, everything shifts. You could lose your college scholarship, a family member or friend could die, your company could shut down, your home could be lost to fire or flood, your relationship could end, or, just as quickly, you could get approved for a business loan, land your dream job, receive a life-saving transplant or win the lottery.
You might feel alone one day and meet the love of your life in the most unexpected place. Nothing is permanent, and change can come in an instant.
Never take what you have for granted; don’t assume your struggles define your future.
Life […]
Too often, we tell ourselves, “I can’t” or “I’m stuck,” however, the reality is we’re not. It’s not your circumstances holding you back—it’s your mindset.
You’re not rooted in place like a tree. You have the power to change, to choose, to move. Your life is yours to shape.
If you want a new job, a different city, or a fresh start in any area of life—you can make it happen.
If you’re unhappy, create a plan, take small steps, and lean into what truly brings you joy.
It won’t always be easy; however, it’s always possible. You can stay grounded and emotionally resilient and continue making meaningful progress no matter what life […]
Prioritize yourself by setting boundaries.
Stop agreeing to things you don’t want to do, and start saying no—without explanation or apology.
Those who have taken advantage of you in the past will adjust.
We often put others’ happiness before our own but remember: you matter.
Your well-being comes first. Saying no protects your energy and creates space for others to step up and say yes.
Let go of people-pleasing.
Honor your own needs.
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential.
I deeply value honesty, empathy, loyalty, and support. I have a strong instinct to defend the underdog, often stepping in during times of difficulty, tension, or conflict. I take pride […]
Happiness begins within. While it’s tempting to look to others, events, or material possessions to fill our lives with joy, the truth is that genuine happiness is something only you can cultivate. Placing the responsibility for your happiness on others is unfair to them and a heavy burden they were never meant to carry.
Similarly, material things may bring fleeting joy and are not a lasting source of fulfillment.
Ultimately, no one and nothing outside of you can create lasting happiness—it’s up to you to discover what lights you up and brings meaning to your life.
True joy comes from the choices you make and the perspective you nurture.
“Never put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.” ~Unknown
It was a Friday […]
I’m dedicating this blog post to perseverance—standing tall during hard times, holding onto faith, and believing you can overcome even amid pain and heartbreak. Sometimes, we face hardships, miss opportunities, or stumble. In those moments, we do our best with the knowledge and resources available to us.
At just nine years old, my world was turned upside down when I lost my mother in a single tragic day. That moment changed my life forever and marked the beginning of a journey of resilience that carried me through the depths of pain and helped me find my way forward.
Outcomes can go either way—that’s the risk we take in life.
Sadly, we may never fully understand the reasons behind certain events, especially the painful […]
Failure can be one of life’s most challenging lessons, and its most significant harm lies in how it can paralyze us, making us afraid to try again or move forward.
Remember, no one is flawless—mistakes and setbacks are essential to personal growth.
How can we expect to discover new opportunities or develop resilience without missteps?
Falling short doesn’t make you a failure; it means you took a chance that didn’t go as expected. What matters most is getting back up, adjusting, and moving. Don’t let setbacks define you or prevent you from pursuing new possibilities. Many of the world’s most successful individuals failed multiple times, yet they persevered. Your mistakes don’t define your journey—your persistence does.
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t […]
Age is merely a mindset, not a limitation.
Don’t let it discourage you from pursuing new beginnings or doing something different. You’re as young as your outlook and energy.
Remember, Colonel Sanders launched KFC at 62, and I completely reinvented my life several times, once at age 42 after facing bankruptcy and again at age 70 after retiring.
Often, our beliefs create limits—telling ourselves we’re ‘too old’ or that it’s ‘too late.’
In reality, it’s never too late to rewrite your story and embrace a fresh chapter.
As the philosopher Heraclitus wisely noted, “The only constant in life is change.”
This simple truth offers us endless opportunities for fresh starts—beginning a new year, embarking on a new career path, or stepping into a new relationship.
Each sunrise […]
An inspiring way to start 2025!
Release the pain of the past and resist revisiting it, especially with those responsible for it. Dwelling on it only prolongs the hurt and leads to further conflict.
We often bring up old wounds for validation or apologies that may never come. Unfortunately, closure isn’t always guaranteed, and waiting for it can leave you trapped in the past. True healing lies in letting go.
Embrace the lessons from your experiences, and focus on creating a brighter future. Carrying the weight of yesterday prevents you from fully stepping into today’s happiness.
~ Mother Teresa
This timeless quote from Mother Teresa encapsulates profound […]